When it comes to edging stroke techniques, I like the ones that almost work best.
What do I mean by that? Simple. When you sit down to wank one out, you go for the most efficient and pleasurable stroke possible, to get to the orgasm as fast as you possibly can. For me, that’s really boring. I don’t want you to cum in two minutes flat, I want to draw things out and make you my personal stroker bitch for as long as possible! So, some edging stroke techniques that feel really good but not quite good enough is the perfect technique for me!
Here’s my top three edging stroke techniques, designed to make your torment last a good long time.
Edging stroke technique number three involves controlling the speed and pressure to prolong your suffering and desire to orgasm. A nice loose fist, barely closed on your cock, and a glacial stroke rate combine to drive you to the absolute edge of frustrated desire. The key here is to be patient and just let the desire build. This technique is great for an hour or two of edging fun; combine it with some porn or teasing talk, and you’ve got a slow build that leaves you eventually begging for more. More contact, more speed, more anything as long as I let you finally cum for me.
Technique number two on the edging stroke technique best of list takes a fantastic stroke for ramping up the desire and subverts it into a teasing onslaught that cannot be denied. Normally, I’d have you make an almost too tight fist, and then only use your hips to fuck your hand. For edging games, however, I’m gonna have you fuck nice and slow, and just maintain that wonderful edge of orgasm bliss for me. I have to admit that what I like about this one is the eventual stutter in your hip thrust as you fight to maintain control over that orgasm.
My hands down favorite edging stroke technique is diabolical, I’ll give you that. But, it’s also a whole lot of fun, as well as stupid simple. In a nutshell, stroke until you’re hard, then stop. From that point on, you can only use the tip of one finger, only on the head of your cock, and you must only move slowly. This one relies on a partial excitement of the nerve endings in your cock. Try it now, on the back of your own hand. Barely touching, only the pad of one fingertip, tiny slow circles. Doesn’t matter what part of your skin you do this on, pretty soon you’ll be just itching to replace that too gentle not enough touch with something more robust. On your cock, this sensation ramps up to 11 and you’ll be begging to cum in no time.
What’s your favorite edging stroke technique? Tell me about it in the comments!
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Thank you, Miss Harper! Interesting ideas. When I want to really draw out my arousal and build up my desperation, I put on satiny sissy panties and then can only stimulate my clit by moving and pulling on the panties, not directly on my clit. I take a second pair of panties (satin full briefs), cover my hand, and then slip into the panties I’m wearing to give my clit a satiny squeeze and top. I especially like to combine this with full on dressing where access to my clit and panties is covered by a slip, a skirt, a dress, etc. It really ramps up my desperation to feel ‘trapped/caught’ all dressed up like a sissy, struggling in all my femme finery, aching to touch my clit and explode. 🙂
Ooooh Ms. Harper any cock under your control is certainly going to be well edged and teased that’s for sure!!! Those strokers don’t have a chance! I think this is a great informative post because guys get into masturbation ruts and want to do the same thing all of the time. Isn’t it funny that we know more about their favorite toy than they do sometimes!!!
Great post dearest Harper.Most men are orgasm chasers.The trick is to lose this mindset and say hey,let my orgas find me.Keep it slow,stop and go.Keep the finale at arms length.Treasure the build up more than the finale push.Very the texture,use a heavy tacky lube,then change to light and wispy.Your body loves sensory change.Just when things get delirious,quit…..and go back.And for Gods sake breath! …..oxygen deprivation makes for a quick trigger.