A lot of seemingly straight men are conflicted about whether or not they are a cocksucker.
It’s surprisingly common for men to fantasize about sucking cock, being a cocksucker, kneeling in front of a man and licking up and down his long, hard shaft. Every time I get a guy on the phone who wonders about being a cocksucker, I just have to laugh a little. It’s so common that by now I just assume if you’re male, you’ve thought about it.
If you’ve thought about being a cocksucker, don’t worry that it makes you a fag…
Just thinking about being a cocksucker doesn’t necessarily make you gay, or a faggot, or even bisexual. Being curious about sucking cock just means you’re human. It is quintessentially human to be curious about sexuality, and new sexual experiences. Plus, you’ve probably watched porn. I’ve written before about how straight porn uses close up images of blow jobs with a disembodied cock to subvert your sexuality and induce a curiosity about sucking huge cock, so people who watch a lot of BJ porn wind up at least wondering a little about sucking a cock and being a faggot cocksucker.
Cocksucker =/= Gay
Gay is a sexual orientation and identity. To be gay is to yearn for a relationship, intimacy, and romance with another person of the same gender as yourself. To be a cocksucker is to want to stick a dick in your mouth and guzzle cum. See the difference?
If you still don’t know if you’re a cocksucker or not…
Give me a call, and we can figure this out together! I’m an expert in finding the hidden faggot, and helping curious straight men explore their need for cock. Get ready to kneel.
I keep having this conversation with a guy who tells me all about making out with men, rubbing his ball sack on another guy’s, getting a big facial cumshot….now THIS guy is a faggot! You’re right when you say sucking cock for your Mistress doesn’t mean you’re gay, necessarily. As long as you’re not doing what this guy does, you should escape with your straight card intact!
Dearest Harper,I got super horny watching blow job porn when I began to admire big gorgeous cocks(much bigger than mine) and began to get the desire to suck dick.I think I am hopelessly picky about whose cock to suck.I dont want any hairy aggressive “he men”No manly big gut fattys.I just want a gorgeous cock to savoir with great hygiene and NO disease.Where to?
Rod, I don’t think Ms. Harper is a match maker in your particular town of origin. Rather, she gives you a place where you can safely discuss your wants, needs, and fantasies without judgement. OF course, I know that you know this. Trying to get a rise out of Ms. Harper should be an interesting discussion to say the least. I think I will sit back and get some popcorn while Ms. Harper goes and grabs her bull whip….. 🙂 (Oh, yes, I’ve seen it!!)
I love when a guy can be open-minded enough to at least try cocksucking, because the kinkier a man is, the more kinky I can be in bed. It is perfecty normal for a man to be curious about their own gender, and not hard to understand that someone with a cock would be able to please someone *else* with a cock in a completely different way than any woman can. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re gay, it just means they aren’t vanilla, and thank goodness for that!
God I love, absolutely love getting down on my knees between a man’s open legs … unzipping his fly … reaching my hand into his pants and pulling his dick out! Then flickering my tongue over his cock head and taking his cock into my mouth♥♥♥
I love what you said about cocksucking. I want you to be the one I suck a cock for. If I talk with you and pledge to suck cock at the local peep show house and get back to you and describe how it felt it would help me accomplish something I have wanted to do for some time. I will try to reach you again tomorrow. What is the best time to reach you? Thank you.
Help me, please.