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Free Guided Erotic Meditation

I’ve got a special gift for you! A free guided erotic meditation audio!

One of the trickiest things about getting started with¬†erotic meditation is just… getting started. Knowing how to relax, how to get ‘in the mood’, and how to simply begin to focus one’s mind on the erotic bliss of being is a . . . → Read More: Free Guided Erotic Meditation

Erotic Meditation and Tantra for Beginners

One of the most interesting and misunderstood types of guided masturbation is the erotic meditation.

Most of the time, when someone comes to me and says they want to experience erotic meditation, what they mean is they want a trippy, dreamy, laid back guided masturbation session with some Zen-ish embellishments on top. What ~I~ . . . → Read More: Erotic Meditation and Tantra for Beginners

Female Led Relationships and the Consent of the Governed

I would personally never be in anything other than a female led relationship.

Ok, let’s back up a bit, and talk about what a female led relationship is. A FLR is a relationship that takes the conventional script for how a heterosexual couple is supposed to make decisions and flips it on its head. . . . → Read More: Female Led Relationships and the Consent of the Governed

Oral Sex Part Two Techniques and Tips

Now that you’ve got the skinny on how to safely use your mouth for oral sex, let’s move right along and discuss the fun part!

Everyone has their own favorite tips for oral sex, and some of them actually make sense and work. But, sadly, an awful lot of what people advise about going . . . → Read More: Oral Sex Part Two Techniques and Tips

All About Oral Sex Part One

Let’s talk about oral sex. All about oral sex…

Let’s face it: putting your face on other people’s genitals is a lot of fun. Hell, having other people’s faces up in your junk is fun! There’s very little in life that’s hotter than really good oral sex, and there’s absolutely no reason for you . . . → Read More: All About Oral Sex Part One

Kinky Sex Scene: Pacing

When you first get started playing with BDSM and kinky sex, it’s easy to run wild.

You get super excited about this new world, and then you run yourself into a wall. Just like any new hobby, it’s easy to mis-judge your stamina and energy, and let your interest drag you along into untenable . . . → Read More: Kinky Sex Scene: Pacing

Cock Sucking Slut Post Orlando

How do you continue to be a cock sucking slut after Orlando?

As you all know, on June 12th there was a tragic attack on a gay nightclub in¬†Orlando, FL; 49 GLBTQ+ people lost their lives in the largest gun related hate crime in the history of the United States. In the wake of . . . → Read More: Cock Sucking Slut Post Orlando

Whore Slut vs Innocent Virgin: Whore School In Session

All right, let’s get this session of Whore School underway! Today’s topic: Whore Slut vs Innocent Virgin.

At the heart of our society’s relationship with sex lies a dichotomy. Most of our societal and cultural structures can be broken down into binary pairs; adult/child, male/female, productive/unproductive… so it makes sense that we’d also break . . . → Read More: Whore Slut vs Innocent Virgin: Whore School In Session

My Guest Blogs So Far This Month

Tell me what you need.

Let’s do a round up for what’s out there so far: my guest blogs have gotten wide readership!

But I think you guys here at the home blog deserve to see where I’ve written guest blogs around the LDW Network. Wait until you see what I wrote this . . . → Read More: My Guest Blogs So Far This Month

Assertive Maleness and the Lie of Modern Sex

There is something about assertive maleness that has made a comeback in recent months.

You know the sort of assertive maleness I’m talking about, you see it all the time online, and in face to face interactions as well. The more it becomes politically incorrect to mock transgendered people, the more equal women strive . . . → Read More: Assertive Maleness and the Lie of Modern Sex