Why tease and denial is so luscious: somehow, you always get what you need
Tease and denial phone sex, orgasm denial phone sex, phone sex mistress, sensual domination, sensual mistress August 20th, 2008
I recently was chatting in IM with one of my sweet regular callers, D. As you all know, I posted here not too long ago about what I find hot about teasing and denial. And as I said back then, I do so love cockteasing you, seemingly endlessly. So I was all ears when D., who has been a longtime aficionado of T&D himself, offered some of his own musings on the subject.
Among other things, he and I were discussing the inherent paradox of a tease-and-denial scenario. After all, what the caller and I both are so very excited by during those calls is that he is quite likely to get. . .oh, not much at all of what he’s hoping for! So what could a boy possibly find satisfying about that?
Ah, plenty—as D. invariably attests in his praise-filled follow-up IMs to his cocktease phone sex sessions with me! In fact, his recent point was that it’s really all about the caller’s mindset. Said my thoughtful D., “with the right mindset, he always gets what he wants, no matter what he gets or doesn’t. . . .Meaning, our type is grateful either way.”
As well you should be, sweeties. Because when you’ve got me to provide such highly creative, detailed takes on whatever most dazzlingly hits your erotic hot buttons, your adult phone chat experience can be very fine indeed. And as D. suggested, you and I both know what you want—and I know just how to (not) give it to you. . .in the most sizzling way possible.
August 27th, 2008 at 1:43 am
“with the right mindset, he always gets what he wants, no matter what he gets or doesn’t. . . .Meaning, our type is grateful either way.”
I’ll venture a generalization, and speculate that most guys who enjoy T&D are at least somewhat submissive. That being the case, there are other forms of satisfaction to be had from a T&D session. There’s the pleasure of submitting to Mistress, and accepting her decision, and certainly there’s the pleasure of pleasing Mistress. I absolutely do enjoy those elements of a T&D session, even though it does end in denial on one level.
August 30th, 2008 at 2:06 am
We are in agreement, TM! I do love that about T&D boys: there are so many avenues to satisfaction for both them and I. As you well know, I’m all about situations that are much more layered than is initially obvious…I find it so exciting to have all those options for play.