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By Harper, on January 26th, 2012
 Can you believe I hadn’t watched Girl 6 before?
It’s true. I’d somehow managed to go all this time working phonesex and I hadn’t seen one of the most famous phonesex movies of all time. Girl 6 follows the career of a young actress in New York. She has trouble with relationships (her squeeze is a theif), with landing acting gigs and with money. To solve her problems, she takes a position working phone sex in a call center.
A major plot point is the difference between call center girls and at home girls.
Madonna has a role as the owner of a phone sex company (looking smoking hot, may I say), dispatching calls to working ladies to return, collect, at a later date. The line she’s running is a very explicit taboo line, and our eponymous Girl 6 doesn’t like that idea, so she goes to a call center. I’ve never worked in a call center, so I don’t know directly what that is like, but it kinda looked like fun.
Despite the fact that I liked the movie, there are some huge discrepancies between how phone sex is portrayed and the reality of phone sex.
In the movie, the heroine is repeatedly cautioned against ‘getting hooked’ on phonesex, as well as some vague recriminations against cumming with the callers. Let me put on my educator hat right here and fix that issue publicly. You can’t get hooked on phone sex. You can certainly try, and you can become psychologically dependant upon anything if you bend your brain enough, but in reality land? Yeah, no. As for there being something wrong with cumming with your callers, god I hope not! A nice healthy orgasm won’t hurt you any, and it won’t hurt your Mistress either.
That said, she did make some mistakes.
She worked too much. You can burn out on anything, and if you’re good at phone sex that means you’re putting a lot of mental and emotional energy into it. If you’re taking this as a career, then you’re going to want to be aware of your own needs and prioritize appropriately. Oh, and needless to say, the part where she tries to meet a caller? Let’s inject some real world facts here: Bob Regular could have been as much of a homocidal maniac as the nameless client at the end of the movie who scares her into moving to L.A.
All in all, I liked Girl 6.
I wouldn’t reccommend it to anyone wanting a good idea of what working phone sex is like today, but it was entertaining and pretty. Plus, her wigs were awesome! And I’m totally in love with her version of Foxy Brown, Lovely Brown. You dig it?
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By Harper, on January 23rd, 2012
 When I say “Restriction”, I bet you get one of two images in your mind.
You either think of ropes, cuffs and the other fun device bondage toys, or you think about the psychological restrictions imposed by your strict Mistress.
Whichever mental image you get when restriction is mentioned, you will have a physical response to that word and image. Your mind and your body are inextricably linked; you have a physiological reaction to every outside stimulus, whether you want to or not. So the image of being restrained, tied down in front of your Mistress, at the mercy of her every whim probably prompted a response for you in your pants.
If I told you that you would be spending every hour of every day from now in restraints…
For a certain subsection of the population, you just got very happy. The rest of you squirmed. But, I know what you don’t know. When I say you’re going to be restrained 24/7, I’m not thinking about tying your hands behind your back, or using Japanese rope bondage to decorate your body. No, I’m thinking of restraining a portion of your anatomy. Your dick.
Device bondage includes using chastity devices to restrain your dick.
A CB6000 or other chastity device is a type of device bondage (using a tool to restrain, constrict and control your body) that focuses on a very specific bit of your anatomy. And, y’know, I really like device bondage. I like knowing that I can use a metal tool and Master Lock to guarantee total control over you and your dick. There’s something about that phrase… guarantee total control. Doesn’t that just sound delicious?!
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By Harper, on January 17th, 2012
 If you ask yourself “Am I queer?”, the answer is…
Depends.
Just like the guys who ask me if they’re gay, queerness isn’t one of those things that can be determined by anybody other than you. If you claim that label, then yep, you’re queer. The trick is that a lot of people define ‘queer’ very differently.
So, what does ‘queer’ mean?
In it’s most elemental, broken down form, ‘queer’ means ‘other.’ Of course, this begs the question ‘other than what?’ Other than mainstream, other than straight, other than normal… Oh, but that definition leaves out the folks who say they’re queer and are straight. And the ones that are pretty normal, when you think about it. I mean, you hold down a job, eat, sleep, play and love, that’s all pretty normal.
For some people, ‘queer’ is a way of looking at life. They’re the hipsters, the green freaks, the eco warriors, the scensters, kinksters and polyamorous bits of fruit and nut in the granola bowl of life. When you think of mainstream middle America, the queer folks are the ones on the edges, defying expectations and creating a new society.
Queer is also often defined as being somewhere along the QUILTBAG spectrum.
What’s QUILTBAG stand for? QUeer, Intersex, Lesbian, Transgendered, Bisexual, Asexual and Gay. Now, Queer is a part of that acronym, yes, but sometimes that acronym is used to define queerness.
Ok, brass tacks time: Are you Queer?
Do you want to be? Leave aside questions about how much you want to suck a dick, whether or not you want to be coerced into a dress and panties or what you like to masturbate to. Whether or not you’re queer has more to do with how you want to define yourself than what you do in your bedroom.
I’m queer because I claim it. I like men and women, I like to play with bondage and whips, I like to explore power exchange in my relationships and I’m a sex worker. Why are you queer?
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By Harper, on January 13th, 2012
I’ve been working hard lately!
I’ve got new content showing up all over the place, and if you’ve been paying attention, I bet you’ve found a lot of it already. But, incase you haven’t tripped over it all, I’ll point some of it out to you!
The Daily Cock Blog has seen quite a bit of activity in the new year.
I’ve blogged for the Daily Cock about my top three masturbation toys for the new year. Here’s a hint: one for your ass, one for your dick, and one is me! Wait, that didn’t come out right… I’m not a toy, but I can be a great masturbation aid. 
If you like fairy tales, and sissy stories, then you may like my Sissy Fairytale! It’s a take on an old classic fairy tale, without the part where she has to put on red hot shoes and dance forever. No, in this one, poor Sissy winds up on her knees!
Posted just today we have my exploration of the fundamentals of desire, in The Ins and Outs of Desire. Why do you like what you like, and what happens when you don’t get what you want?
If you like to follow me around, you may like my newest bio!
We’re setting up a new site, and it’s a little different from the rest. Instead of sex, sex and more sex, this one is aimed at a more conversational and flirty tone. And, for me anyway, I’m hoping to attract some guys to talk about art!
What’s coming up?
 Mistress Harper says Sissies Rule 800 356 6169 I’ve got more stuff lined up for the Daily Cock, some new sale audios planned out (how about a six shooter roulette? six small audios, and only one of them lets you cum!), and a few essays looking for a good home. I’m also hoping to get my art up and running for posting here on the blog! I’m super excited about that one. In the next couple of weeks look for an update to the audio page to match the update to the schedule. You haven’t seen the new schedule page? Well, go look at it! It’s awesome.
I’d like to hear from you.
If there’s a subject you’d like to hear my thoughts on, if there’s something you want to know about me, any burning questions you’d like answered, please feel free to post them in comments here, or email me. I’m making a very concerted effort to stay on top of the freaking email pile (it’s a new year’s resolution!) so you can help me keep it!
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By Harper, on January 9th, 2012
 You desire so many things (800)356-6169 The allure of the all powerful Pussy is hard to deny.
And really, who’d want to even try to deny the Pussy? There’s just so much to love about it, after all. Whether you want to worship my pussy for hours on end, until I just can’t take it any more and kick you off of me or you want to have a pussy just like mine, Pussy power is where it’s at.
You can’t deny the pull of a Woman’s power.
If you can’t be a woman, you want to be able to please her. That’s really the only two options available here. Be female, be feminine and embrace all the power of the Pussy, or do your level best to please the Pussy. Let’s start with how you’re going to make my Pussy very, very happy.
My Pussy demands worship.
You’re going to be spending an amazing amount of time getting to know my Pussy, up close and personal. I want you to work until your jaw aches, your tongue goes numb and your whole world becomes my sweet tight Pussy. If you’re not taking the time, energy and effort to focus on breathing, you’re doing it wrong. I expect you to really focus on my pleasure.
If you fail at pleasing me, then we’ll have to find another use for your mouth.
As LilyAnnie at the Enchantrix Empire told me, “your mouth is your Mistress’s Pussy.” And if it’s my pussy, I can do all sorts of things with it. I promise you, I will find a good use for your mouth, for my sweet pussy.
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By Harper, on January 3rd, 2012
I really do enjoy listening to my sweet dear clients beg.
I’ve discovered that I have a fairly wide streak of voyuer in me this past year. I thought I only had a little bit of a tendency to peer in windows and watch private moments, but as it turns out, I really do . . . → Read More: O is for Orgasm Denial
By Harper, on December 26th, 2011
A sadly under appreciated erogenous zone exists front and center of every body.
Your nipples, little nubbins of nerves and happy sensations, are so often overlooked and missed on the trip to happy orgasm land. It’s really sad to me how many people are so terribly genital focused. You start to think you’d like . . . → Read More: N is for Nipples!
By Harper, on December 24th, 2011
No matter how much you may want to deny it, we all know you like to jerk off.
Hell, every living human on the planet wanks. Literally everyone enjoys a bout of manual erotic stimulation from time to time. Yes, even porn stars masturbate. So it’s no surprise to anyone at all that you . . . → Read More: M is for Masturbation
By Harper, on December 12th, 2011
When your mind is hazed by lust, you can be easily controlled.
But you already knew that, didn’t you. I mean, you’ve lived with this your whole life. The way your brain seems to turn off when a pretty girl walks by, the way you just automatically notice my hot legs and the way . . . → Read More: L is for Lust
By Harper, on December 10th, 2011
Bow Before Me
One of the best things about my lovers is making out.
There’s just something so wonderful about taking our time and really exploring each other’s bodies. Imagine necking on the couch during some cheesy romcom movie, and being so completely wrapped up in each other that you can’t remember the . . . → Read More: K is for Kissing
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