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Humiliation of Being Vulnerable

There’s a lot of nuance to erotic humiliation games.

humiliation of being vulnerable 800 356 6169When you’re at your most vulnerable, you’re open to all sorts of situations that can lead to humiliation. The humiliation of being vulnerable is one of the scariest forms of humiliation play. The reason it’s so scary, so terrifying, lies in our socialization and culture: to be vulnerable is to be weak, open to rejection and ridicule, and we’ve all been taught to avoid vulnerability and therefore weakness.

There’s a lot that is humiliating about being vulnerable, especially for males.

This is one of those uniquely gendered humiliation games. Females also feel embarrassed when we’re made to feel vulnerable, but we’ve been taught all our lives about how to deal with that embarrassment and vulnerability. Women are more vulnerable in general than men are, and therefore we deal with it better. Strip a man of his clothes and have him kneel before a fully clothed dominatrix, and it’s likely he’s never felt so very vulnerable before in his entire life. And because males are taught to avoid vulnerability at all costs, he has little to no coping skills to help him deal with his newfound weakness.

When I play erotic humiliation games, I pay attention to the things that make you feel vulnerable.

Is it being naked in front of me? Having me measure your genitalia to see how you compare to ‘average’ males? Confessing all your dirty, perverted fantasies? What is it that awakens that vulnerability in you, that makes you so deeply embarrassed that you can’t even meet my eyes?

Opening up that vulnerable center of yourself is good for you.

By practicing being weak, vulnerable, and defenseless, you learn how to cope. You learn by doing, after all. So let’s help you learn to manage those parts of your life where you are vulnerable, and weak, and utterly, pathetically, defenseless. You’ll learn and have an erotically good time, all at once! And if, in the future, you find yourself feeling vulnerable and then helplessly turned on, well. Good.


 

Small Penis Humiliation Taken to Extreme Lengths

When you’ve got a ridiculously tiny penis, it’s easy to go to extreme lengths when humiliating you.

800 356 6169 small penis humiliationTruly tiny penises are so ridiculous looking that it’s easy to get carried away with mocking and laughter. I do try to remember to be compassionate towards the lesser endowed, but sometimes my sensual humiliation skills fail in the face of a micropenis. A micropenis just invites extreme small penis humiliation! Once I get started, I just keep going and going, sometimes for entire orders of magnitude further than I should.

What do I mean when I say ‘orders of magnitude further’ with small penis humiliation?

Let’s say you’ve got a one sad incher of a prick. We’re talking micro mini penis here. So tiny it’s surprising, and the natural inclination is to ask if it’s hard yet, even when it’s plainly standing up as tall as it can. One order of magnitude is ten times larger than what you’ve got to offer. So my lover has a cock that is a literal order of magnitude larger than what’s in your pants.

My small penis humiliation usually focuses on how thin, or short, or generally unimpressive your pricklette is.

Sometimes my small penis humiliation can go to great lengths and really dig deep, cutting a huge, wrecked swathe through your ego (such as it is.) Instead of merely commenting on the size and girth, or lack thereof, I’ll branch out and start comparing all the things that would be more satisfying than your pathetic dick. If you’re a micropenis, I bet it’s upsetting to be told my strappon is bigger than you. But would you start to cry if I told you my limp packing cock was bigger than your tiny dick? If I pulled out Mr. Limpy in all it’s silicone flacid glory, and compared it to your straining ‘hard’ prick? Five inches soft, while here’s yours, hard, and it’s all so sad.

I do try to keep my SPH within set limits, but really, sometimes your dick motivates me to really cut loose. Can you blame me?


 

Prostate Milking With Mistress Sierra

Professor Sierra Gives a Guest Lecture on Prostate Milking

prostate milking with Mistress Sierra 800 601 7259Hello to all you subbie scholars and sissy students! Today I am going to address a simple question…

Prostate milking: Health regimen or guilty pleasure?

The answer is that it’s both.

Whether you are a seasoned anal expert, or a tentative anal explorer, this lesson should help shed some light on an age-old practice. I truly believe that every man should have a clear understanding of his sexual anatomy. Yes, the prostate is one of your sex glands, boys. So sit back and enjoy Sex Ed 101 with Mistress Sierra: Prostate milking for beginners and beyond.

Um…what exactly is the prostate?

Did someone sleep through most of their high school biology classes? Naughty, naughty.  

The prostate is a small exocrine sex gland that produces a slightly alkaline fluid that comprises a large portion of the male ejaculate. The prostatic fluid combines with fluid from the seminal vesicles and sperm from the testicles to produce semen, which is ejaculated through the penis during orgasm. The prostate is essential for reproduction and sexual performance. Isn’t science sexy?

Ok, so where is this thing located?

The prostate is actually not very difficult to stimulate. You just have to know where to go. If you insert your finger into your anal canal  – using plenty of lubrication, of course – and curve it slightly toward your cock, you should feel a small, walnut-sized gland just beneath the lining. You can massage, or “milk”, the prostate by gently rubbing your finger in a side-to-side motion.

And why would I want to do that?

Two reasons. First, routine massaging of the prostate can produce enormous health benefits. It stimulates blood flow and allows the prostate to flush out accumulated fluid, preventing a multitude of problems including erectile dysfunction (no one wants that!) and an enlarged, painful prostate.  

Second, there are a multitude of benefits for your sex life. Prostate milking can be an extremely pleasurable experience, often resulting in a highly intense orgasm, often without even stimulating your cock. Routine milking of the prostate can also lead to larger erections, longer erections, and better orgasm control. And for a chastity slave locked up for prolonged orgasm denial, it is often the only form of release that is allowed.

Ok, you convinced me to give it a try. Now what do I do?

Now this is the fun part!

If you have never done any kind of anal play, or even if your anal experience is limited, you will want to start out slow. And by slow, I mean small. Don’t go out and buy yourself a giant 12 inch dildo and expect to milk yourself with it!

You can milk your prostate yourself, or entice your partner to do it for you. You would be surprised at how many women love this sort of play, it is an incredible power surge. Lie down on the bed, make sure you are as relaxed as possible, bend your knees, and spread your legs. Apply a generous amount of lubrication to your finger and slowly insert it into your ass. Now, curve your finger slightly toward your cock. Feel around for the prostate, it is about the size of a walnut and has a squishy consistency. Now stimulate, very gently, side to side. Feels amazing, doesn’t it?

From here, you can decide how much stimulation you would like. You can experiment with different techniques and toys, like dildos and prostate stimulators. That’s all part of the fun! Don’t be afraid to really let go and enjoy yourself. The more you can allow yourself to get lost in the sensation, the better it will be. And if you’re lucky, you just might work your way up to being a bottom bitch for your strap-on wielding Mistress!

And now for your homework…share your very first anal experience (or fantasy) with Ms. Harper and I in the comments section…and the more details, the better!

Class dismissed….

Professor Sierra

 


 

Semi-Public Humiliation

One of the fun things about Humiliation play is how we can take our games outside!

semi-public humiliation is fun 800 356 6169Semi-public Humiliation is right up on the list of my favorite ways to humiliate you. It’s hard, though, to walk the line between semi-public and really overt. Remember, I’m a consent junkie, so I never want to include bystanders in our kinky games without their permission ahead of time! That said, it’s fairly easy to use innuendo and sly word play to put you in your place with everyone around us none the wiser.

Semi-public humiliation is exactly what it says on the wrapper.

I’m not talking about making you walk down the road nude so everyone can see exactly how small your tally-whacker is. Oh no. But having you hold my purse while I try on a cute outfit? Oh yes. Asking a cute guy about his opinion on my outfit without looking at you at all? You betcha! Breezing past the checkout, with the obvious assumption that of course you’ll take care of that for me, letting you juggle the bags and boxes from other stops, plus the purse, while I call for you to hurry up, darling, my spa appointment is coming up!

It’s all in the implications, and in what other people are going to be assuming about you and I.

It’s semi-public because it is out in the open, but none of it’s overt, it’s never a blatant “oh yeah, he’s my bitch.” Instead, it’s subtle, simple, and relies upon what other people are going to be thinking about you. And really, about what you’re going to think they’re thinking. You know what they’re thinking, what they’re going to go home and tell their friends they saw today. “Oh my gosh, there was this total loser at the store today, such a lap dog of a man. He was just whipped! I bet he’s got a tiny dick, that’s why he’s so eager to let his girlfriend boss him around like that.”

Would you like to play a semi-public humiliation game with me?

I bet I can get you hard and aching in public, embarrassed and squirming in humiliation… it’ll be fun!


 

Foot Worship For a Footsore Mistress

As you all know (what, you don’t follow me on Twitter?!) I sprained my ankle towards the end of July 2016, so my poor feet have been achey and in need of some foot worship for a while now!

foot worship 800 601 7259I need a foot slave with a light touch, someone who’s willing to really take their time and do a fantastic job rubbing my feet. Recovering from an injury is always faster with a little therapeutic touching, and while a fair amount of the soft tissue damage in my foot and ankle has healed, I’m afraid I may have more than sprained it down there. Being that the anatomy of the foot is as it is, there’s very little that can be done, other than some lovely foot worship to speed my healing along.

Picture it with me: you, kneeling to give foot worship service, me, laying back and relaxing with a nice Chablis.

You would prepare the bubbling foot spa, first. Nice and hot, I love a good extra hot foot bath, with plenty of epsom salts and essential oils. Fragrant, bubbling… I’d gasp a bit at first, then relax into it, feeling that warmth travel up my legs, releasing tension and simply melting into a puddle of Happy Mistress. You’d slide your hands into the foot bath, and begin by cradling my foot gently, swiping your thumbs along the top and sides, then, slowly, rubbing and soothing away every ache and pain. I want you really worship my feet

No foot worship would be complete without body butter.

I love a good body butter. Lotion is fine, but I prefer the butters, they sink into my skin and leave me so soft and touchable. It takes time, though, to really work that body butter in, to soothe up and down my legs, working gently and deftly to smooth each and every aching tendon and melting that body butter into my skin. I’d let you work for hours down there. Take your time, I’m not going anywhere.

I’d let you finish up your foot worship with a pedicure.

I’m in need of some pretty color for my toes! You can pick, just do a good job. And when you’re done, I would reward you by letting you worship the rest of my body. I hope you’re as good with your mouth as you are with your hands.


 

Chastity Slave Tease with Mistress Christine

 

A Chastity Slave Needs Out Now And Then

Would you like to play a teasing game?

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Sensual Humiliation

When I talk about Erotic Humiliation, I don’t want to leave you with the impression that it’s all mean and cruel jabs at your shortcomings. I love sensual humiliation!

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Erotic Humiliation: What’s Really Going On?

Let’s talk about Erotic Humiliation.

Erotic Humiliation is one of those oddball fetishes that nearly everyone participates in and yet very few people overtly admit their enjoyment of it. When you’re into being told you’re a “dirty girl”, you’re into erotic humiliation. When you get turned on by being naked in a room full . . . → Read More: Erotic Humiliation: What’s Really Going On?


 

Re-Launch of the Audio Store

Behind the scenes a lot of hard work has gone into the Re-Launch of the Audio Store!

With a new and improved look, as well as an easier to navigate site, the Phone Sex Audio store is now up and ready for business! And, just in time for all your wanking needs, you can . . . → Read More: Re-Launch of the Audio Store


 

Cock Control Games

I love cock control games.

To me, good cock control games have elements of a mind game, a mind fuck, if you will, as well as just plain old power and control transfer games. There’s the psychological aspect to the cock game, where I use what I know about sex and human behavior to . . . → Read More: Cock Control Games