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Good Cocksucker

You want and need to be a good cocksucker, don’t you?

You know that being a good cocksucker would please your Mistress, and so now it’s all you can think about. You’ll google tips for cock worship, watch endless videos and pornos about sucking cock, trying to find out what goes into a really good blowjob. In fact, you’ve spent so much time thinking about sucking cock, that now when you’re with a woman (even if you’re married to her!) all you can focus on is sucking a big beautiful cock.

Don’t you want a nice clear, easy set of instructions for how to be a good cocksucker?

If you’re looking for the mystical key to unlock the perfect blowjob, wow are you in for a surprise and disappointment. No such “one size fits all” blow job exists. Instead of step by step instructions, I only have guidelines to offer to you. If you want your Mistress to call you a Good Cocksucker, keep these simple rules in mind!

Harper’s patented guidelines for being really good at head.

good cocksucker 800 601 7259First, and most important, remember that enthusiasm is an aphrodisiac. No one wants an unenthusiastic blowjob. Talk about a boner killer! If you’re not feeling it, don’t want to, or think you’ve made a mistake, admit it! It’s ok to only be into the fantasy of a bj, as long as you don’t lead your partners on and make them think they’re getting a blowie and then, surprise nope. Show your partner how much you want to suck them off, how badly you need it, and that you really truly want to be a good cocksucker for them. Enthusiasm!

Next, theory is good, but actual practice is much better. It is totally ok for your first blowjob to be not as perfect as you wish it could have been. Even a bad blow job is still a good blow job! It takes practice to get good at sucking cock. Don’t give up if you find yourself disappointed: keep going! Try, try again! Stop fantasizing about sucking cock, and actually go get yourself some real world experience.

Finally, the best key to being a good cocksucker is to just fucking go for it. If you’ve had a bad bj, you already know what not to do: no teeth, no biting, no complaining about hair in your teeth, and absolutely no flinching when you get a facial. Accept it, go with it, and learn to let your own needs go. Just do it. Suck that cock, get in there, get messy. Enjoy the process, and put in the work to become a really excellent cocksucker! Your Mistress will be proud of you, no matter what.

Duchess Willow the Duchess of Hope

Duchess Willow is the Duchess of Hope, but she’s also the Switch Mistress of Despair and endless longing.

After I wrote about the joys of providing domestic service for Willow, one of our dear fans wrote us a lovely bit of fan erotica! Read on for Alice’s story about torment and hope at the hands of Duchess Willow!

Duchess Willow – Duchess of Hope by Alice Wonder

Every evening when my duties for Duchess Willow were complete, I would get what she called the “Fifteen Minutes of Opportunity”. I called them my “Fifteen Minutes of Hope”.

Duchess Willow 800 359 4566I am her domestic submissive. For those unfamiliar with the term, it is much like that of an indentured servant. I am bound to follow her instructions and obey her commands, doing whatever was necessary to keep her home properly clean and in order. I am of course mandated to being extremely hospitable to her guests, even the ones I do not personally like. Perhaps I should say especially to the ones I do not like, to give them any indication I do not like them would dishonor the Duchess, so I am have to make sure they feel like they are important enough to me that I give them especially good treatment in order to best disguise the personal feelings that I might have.

There are however some differences. Being her domestic submissive is far more than just being an obedient indentured servant.

To be a domestic submissive, one has to actually have a passion and strong desire to serve his or her Duchess. It isn’t just about validation that we are useful and serving a purpose, it is about honor and showing our Duchess that we have an actual longing to serve her to the best of our abilities, and improve those abilities whenever we can.

Also, it means she picks what I wear. Well when she wants to. Often I get to pick, but some days, she makes me wear a maid uniform with a lock so that it can not be removed. It is really hard to clean her house while wearing that uniform, but on those days usually she is entertaining guests, so I am acting more as a servant to their needs than cleaning chores.

I have to always make sure my legs are smooth and that I keep sexy thigh-high stocking in good order, I never know when she is going to demand I wear the uniform. Pretty panties too, the skirt is so short the panties underneath will be exposed, that is just reality, so they need to look enticing and inviting and not ordinary.

Sometimes doing the job can be hard. Duchess Willow is a switch. She is not a switch with a domestic submissive like me, but sometimes she has partners over that she chooses to submit to, and I confess it makes me very jealous to see her giving them what I wish I could have. When she is submissive with one of her play partners, it seems like they sometimes enjoy making me jealous, and I get the impression sometimes she enjoys using it to tease me, to make me want what I can not have and what would be out of place to even ask for.

It can be difficult, but Duchess Willow had a rather unique way of motivating me that makes it all worth it.

She has a coffee table in front of her couch, fairly low to the ground. The table is made of hard wood with stone inlaid on the surface, it is very very very beautiful. And of course, it is always very clean, I make sure of that.

After finishing up the last of my duties, I am to present myself to Duchess wearing nothing except my collar, the bracelets around my ankles, and the bracelets around my wrists. Those only she has the authority to remove. If she had me performing duties that day in a locking maid uniform, she removes the lock allowing me to undress and properly put it all away before I present myself to her.

When I present myself to her, a towel and a pillow are placed on the coffee table. I lie down on it on my back. It is not very comfortable, but it is only for 15 minutes and those fifteen minutes, let me tell you, looking forward to them while I serve her domestic needs during the day make me whistle while I work.

I lay there with my legs spread open and my feet on the ground on either side of the table, this table is just the right height for that. Duchess then chains my ankle bracelets to the table legs so that I can not move my feet. My arms hang down the sides. They are not chained to the table legs but she does run a chain between the two bracelets so that it is impossible for me to raise them or, you know, cover or touch my very exposed cock.

Finally, a thin chain is fed through the D-Ring on my collar and wrapped around the table. I can move my head, but I can not lift it. Then the timer starts.

Unless Willow was feeling particularly frisky during my daytime duties, these fifteen minutes are the only time I am permitted to cum. And I am always permitted to cum during these fifteen minutes, I just can not touch myself to make it happen.

Sometimes Willow sits down on her couch and rests her feet on me while she reads or answers messages on her phone. That may mean I did not demonstrate enough effort to earn more, but it also could mean that is simply what she wanted to do. It is always her choice, but I always hope for more.

Sometimes, the Duchess uses her fingernails to tease me. She runs them up and down my sides, across my chest, along the inside of my thighs – getting close to my cock but rarely touching it. My cock often twitches in responses, telling her the hope it has. It hopes for more, it hopes for much more. The precum starts oozing, and if she is in a particularly frisky mood, she might take her finger and spread my precum all over my cock.

It was always a good idea to spend as much effort as I could during the day trying to make Willow really proud of me, because if she was proud of me, maybe just maybe my ears would get to hear her opening the bottle of lube, and my hopes that her hands would do what my hands were bound from doing were going to come true. Well, at least to extent. With her in complete control of the stroking, there was no guarantee she would let me pop, but there was always hope…

Of course in the back of my mind I always hoped for even more. Maybe, just maybe, she wasn’t breaking out the lube for her hands. Was my cherry finally going to pop? I know she had toyed with the idea of doing so, I could feel it, I could see it in her eyes, but would she actually do it?

I had hope, and hope is a good thing to have.

Sometimes she teases my cock with her tongue, flicking it in and out, up and down my shaft as her hand massages my balls. That’s when my restrained head really messes with me, I so want to watch her do it, to temporarily forget she owns that cock and pretend she is worshiping it, but I can’t raise my head, I can’t see what she is doing.

I long for her to to keep the teasing, but I also long for her to take it in, to take it all the way in, and take me to heaven.

Sometimes if I have been really good and she is in a really good mood she does, but most of the time, her tongue play ends a different way, with her making it very clear she controls everything oral.

After teasing my cock with my tongue, she stands up and then plants herself on my face. In my head, I hear her sexy voice say “My Turn” but I am not sure if she is saying it, or if I am hearing what I want to hear.

Either way it doesn’t matter, I know what I am to do. It is time for my tongue to go to work, as best it can, and hope it whatever time remains I am able to have her leave my face looking like a glazed doughnut. That’s the goal, that is what I want to do. If I succeed, then maybe the next day, she will be more generous with whether or not I cum. And maybe, just maybe maybe maybe if my face ends up glazed enough, I’ll get my cherry popped. There’s always hope…

Regardless of what happens when I’m on the table, whether I’m just there for her feet to rest on or she is playing with me, once the timer goes it all ends.

Fifteen minutes, that’s what I get.

She breaks out the cock cage and then releases my restraints, and I wear that cage until morning when it is time to get dressed for another day of service and the hope that I serve her well enough to have my hopes realized.

Don’t tell her this, but that cock cage is a tremendous blessing.

You see, since I know she’s a switch, sometimes I wonder what it would be like if our roles on the table were reversed. What would I do?

Without that cage, well, I just might take that wondering just a bit too far…

You see how terrible and amazing sweet Duchess Willow can be?

If you have some erotic fiction you’d like to see featured here on my blog, send it along! I’ll do some light edits for format, and clean up egregious grammar errors, and then share your fantasies with ~everyone~.

Domestic Service for Switch Mistress Willow

If you follow me on Twitter, you know that sometimes I ask for prompts.

When I get in the mood to write, every now and then there’s just too much to write about; I can have trouble narrowing down the topic and focusing on just one thing, so I’ll ask for a prompt from my Twitter followers. This time, I got two, and instantly combined them because it’s just too hot to resist. What if you were ordered to provide domestic service? What if you had to serve and clean and cook for our very own switch Mistress Willow?

If your brain just melted down like mine did, we should talk.

domestic service for willow 800 539 4566Domestic service means being put to use as, literally, a domestic servant. It’s so circular it’s almost silly; a domestic is a person who comes into your house to do all the pesky chores that you just don’t want to. Let’s be clear, you could do those things, but you choose not to, and really, putting a submissive to work is just efficient. You, the submissive, get to be near your beloved Mistress, and you provide work that is of value and is appreciated by your Mistress. Cleaning the bathroom is just not a chore most people get super excited about, so allowing you the honor of doing it? Oh yes.

Add on top of the need to serve and please the tinge of humiliation you’re certain to feel when sweet switch Willow brings home her alpha stud…

Can you just imagine? Don’t worry, I can, and I’ll describe it to you. There you are, in your sissy maid outfit, kneeling, scrubbing the floor around the toilet, when Willow arrives home from her adventures. Who’s that with her? Why, that’s her manly alpha stud. You know he’d never be caught kneeling down in a skirt, scrubbing the floor like you… and in fact, when he takes Willow and has her kneel in front of him, and orders her to suck his cock, you realize that he’s far more of a man than you could ever be. You’re providing domestic service for switch Willow while she’s sucking her Master’s cock. Cheeks burning, you just can’t look away at all, can you?

Mistress Willow knows exactly how to push your buttons, little sissy maid.

And so do I.

You know you’ll be dreaming about giving excellent domestic service to your switch Mistress. You know where you belong and what you’re for, and nothing really reinforces this better. You, kneeling, begging, crying…

As long as you get the kitchen clean and dinner ready by 7, you can snivel and cry all you want. Try not to disturb Willow’s Master, though. Who knows what He’ll want to do to a sissy like you…

Virtual World Blog Shenanigans

I’ve been featured on the Virtual World Blog!

If you head over to Virtual World Phone Sex you can read my latest think piece “Intimacy Through Roleplay.” They were kind enough to let me interrupt the sexy games with sissies and transformation sluts with 750 words of philosophy and deep thoughts about intimacy in relationships, long distance relationships, and the role that imaginative role play games can have in same. That’s right, I got deep again, and did my thing. It’s ok, I think they like it!

At the same time that I’m stinking up the front page of the blog with philosphy, by bio is up over there, too.

virtual world blog Harper 800 539 4566Want to see what the Virtual Harper looks like? Get a feel for what I’m doing in the sim? Well, check out my bio on the Virtual World Blog. I lay it all out, including a few little details that I don’t think I’ve spelled out quite so explicitly before. Want to gain insight into a part of me that you’ve probably never seen or experienced? Well hon, that’s why I laid it all out for you. And in case¬† you’d rather hear me talk about myself, there’s audio to go along with it.

You should follow the Virtual World Blog.

It’s a group blog, with articles and posts from the lovely Mistresses in the Virtual World. You can read all about what’s available for Virtual Sissies, as well as virtual reality sex games. Learn about what’s going on in the Empire online, special events, and even get a little teased and turned on. Pick one of the Mistresses who provide sessions in our virtual playground, hop into the sim, and come play with us! We’ll walk you through the start up process, and help you explore all your dirty desires and hidden fantasies.

How to Get Started with Virtual Domination

Have you ever wanted to get started with virtual domination?

I’ve been writing and talking about all the fun to be had in our Virtual World, and now there’s a bunch of possibly lost and confused newbies wandering around. So, here’s a guide for how to get started with virtual domination! You’re gonna want to start out by downloading the Firestorm Viewer and creating a free account. From there, it’s both simple and complex, so here’s what happens next…

After you make your free account and download the viewer, you’re gonna want to log in.

Harper in the Virtual World 800 539 4566 get started with virtual dominationNow, the virtual world is entirely user created. This means that if you have the skills, you can make the things you see for yourself. Or, you can choose to purchase things other users have created. Luckily, the system has a virtual currency. Sadly, this means items from the virtual world cost real money. But, luckily again, the conversion rate is really good. One dollar in world is about a half a cent in the real world. So something that costs thousands of dollars online is really a fraction of real money. Most people choose to simply spend a little money and purchase goods made by other users, rather than learning to craft their own. And that’s a good thing because there is a wide range of items you could choose to purchase!

All the tweaking and personalization of your avatar can take a while. So in the meantime, what are you doing? You’re continuing to get started with virtual domination!!!

Even the basic free starter avatar can wear a collar and do RLV animations. In your Firestorm viewer, first, you’ll have to enable RLV. RLV stands for Restrained Love Viewer and allows objects with advanced built-in animations to take over your avatar to make you do things. Like, kneel and kiss your Mistress’s feet, or bend over for a spanking, or get tied and posed in elaborate Shibari scenarios. Here’s how to enable it:

  1. Open the viewer.
  2. Under ‘Avatar’, chose ‘Preferences’ or press Ctrl-P
  3. In that window, in the ‘Firestorm’ tab, at the top of the list check the box to “Allow remote scripted viewer controls”.
  4. Log out and back in again.

Don’t worry, you can pick up a collar for free! In a lot of different styles and looks, to fit your personality and taste. Ask one of the Mistresses for a tour and a teleport over, and we’ll help you find and pick a collar. Once you’ve got your collar, take some time to read the manual. The manual will tell you all about how to use your fancy collar, how to get out of (or into) sticky situations, and what sorts of extra features you could get. For the real world cost of a whopping dollar and twenty cents, you can add features to your free collar that could be a lot of fun for you.

Once you get started with virtual domination, you’ll find that it’s possible to have a whole lot of fun.

Please remember, if we’ve never had a call or session with you in real life, that our basic rules for sexytexting apply: we’re gonna keep it strictly PG 13 until we know for damn certain that you’re over 18 years old. This means that yes, you’re gonna have to do a call or text session with us, and pay for it before we’ll play many kinky games in the Virtual World. Lucky you, we still only have a ten-minute minimum, and calls are still only $2.75 a minute. One call (and we’ll hook you, don’t worry), and then once we know you’re old enough to be kosher, we’ll bend you over and spank you, yank your leash, and treat you like the sexy slut you long to be in the Virtual World.

Stay tuned for more in the How To Get Started series: How to Get a Sexy Avatar in the Virtual World!

 

Sensual Tantra in Kink

There are a lot of tools in my kit, but by far one of the most versatile is sensual Tantra.

I’ve written about Tantra before, but it bears a repeat: while you may think of Tantra and imagine Sting and his epic six-hour fucking marathons, the real practice is very different. In the West, . . . → Read More: Sensual Tantra in Kink

Tour the Empire with Whore School

We’re giving you a chance to tour the Empire with Whore School!

I’ve been going on and on at length about how much fun I’ve been having in our Virtual World. So, I hooked up with the ladies online, and we’re throwing a huge party and giving you the chance to tour the Empire . . . → Read More: Tour the Empire with Whore School

Sexual Identity: Does It Matter?

Does your sexual identity really matter?

For a lot of people, figuring out who you are and what you’re interested in seems to be an activity relegated solely to the stormy years of puberty. And that’s a damn shame, frankly. You, your identity, and your sexual identity are not concrete unchanging things that never . . . → Read More: Sexual Identity: Does It Matter?

Black Women In Femdom: The Submissive Pleasures Of Fuck Doll Willow

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I had the divine pleasure of meeting Mistress Harper, on the Enchantrix Virtual sim, and then talking to her in depth on her cock radio show recently. The topic was race kink, race play fetishes, and systemic racism . . . → Read More: Black Women In Femdom: The Submissive Pleasures Of Fuck Doll Willow

Sissy Cocksucker Spotlight

I’ve got a sweet sissy cocksucker who has been just begging and begging to be on my blog.

She’s a total whore for cock, just really loves a big thick meaty dick sliding between her lips, jizzing all over her face. And she really loves the humiliation of being publicly exposed like this, for . . . → Read More: Sissy Cocksucker Spotlight